Thanks very much for your messages. I appreciate your thoughts on the issue.

I have decided after much deliberation on the issue to no longer see him, and get referred to another phych by my old phych.

As I already had the discussion with him and confronted him on how I felt regarding his behaviour, nothing has changed regarding any dynamics between him and I.

This really did confirm the realisation that this therapy arrangement is in no way therapeutic.

I have worked far too hard to get where I am on a mental level that I have no interest in going backwards.

Again thank you all. It's great to be able to bounce ideas, thoughts etc off each other through this forum. I am very glad to have stumbled across it.