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Originally Posted by H3rmit
Are you hoping to have broad appeal to the average male (ick!) or be yourself and appeal to someone who can appreciate you with your individual foibles? (The latter is a lot more comfortable; the former pays out sooner.)
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Well, the latter would be preferable of course, but if no one notices me in that way, that won't happen. So, if I'm be unattractive to everyone by being too modest, then maybe I need to change something.