Hello
I'm a Junior in a big university. I transferred recently and am having a hard time making friends. I tried joining clubs/fraternities. Got rejected from a fraternity. Feel rejected from club...Making friends in classes are usually kinda hard. There's lots of competition so everyone in classes have beast mode on for the A. In addition, my close friends seem to hang out with themselves now. I feel betrayed that they are leaving me out. But at the same time, I forgive them because friendships outgrow as we get older. But seems like I'm the only one and they're fine. So I feel like there's something wrong with me.......... I can't seem to connect with people and can't make friends. Also, I feel as though because I'm a FB loser...people who would becomes FB friends with me will not want to be friends.

I'm not hideous (I get compliments that I am pretty) but not a perfect body (not obese. just gained a few pounds recently. trying it lose it now ).

I need advice.