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Originally Posted by CantExplain
Therapists (in my experience) are good at modelling forgiveness, tolerance and boundaries.
But they are not so good at modelling flexibility, initiative and a willingness to change. In fact they are pretty awful at modelling those.
Does this matter? In my view, it matters a great deal.
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It's interesting to me that the qualities in the first part are conciliatory; but the qualities of the second part are challenging.