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Old Apr 23, 2013, 02:45 AM
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Originally Posted by CantExplain View Post
Therapists (in my experience) are good at modelling forgiveness, tolerance and boundaries.

But they are not so good at modelling flexibility, initiative and a willingness to change. In fact they are pretty awful at modelling those.

Does this matter? In my view, it matters a great deal.
I think my two long-term T's were great at modeling flexibility, initiative, and willingness to change as well as the first three qualities you listed. It just depends on the person.