I think one of the beauties of Kali is how she understands how we feel about ourselves right now and she sees the true beauty of who we are inside. She has compassion for us and at the same time has anger/retribution towards those who've harmed us. I believe she is ultimately compassionate and will 'dance' with those that caused us pain, in her own time, her own way, and eventually, even those who have hurt us will see the beautiful truth of her reality. Blue, where you are is a better place to be than where they are.