I echo Lee's sentiments. I understand that your mother's behavior is quite hurtful and perplexing, to say the least. It is very important to take care of yourself and baby right now. You have a family, husband, that love you very much and are there for you. Try to focus on that and most importantly your health.

Your mother will be fine. It sounds as if she has quite a set-up arranged for herself. Please keep in touch and let us know how you are doing.

Hugs, Rose