I'm sorry for what is happened to you and it is very rude and disrespectful.

We had a very stupid thing happen at our house a couple years ago. I showed my husband how to get a Facebook page and that it was fun and you could keep track of the kids and play video games. He started playing this online cards, which I could never get into because it was so boring, and made several internet "friendships". I didn't care, I had made a friend in the internet as well, we were similar in age, married, teenage children etc with similar interests, and I had even met my friend and her husband in person once because he drives a semi and was passing through close, we went out for supper and shopping, and we still frequently text or email each other. I also made friends with an older couple from Alaska, and they would send me smoked salmon and I sent them jerky and cookies. So idk....I just thought it was like that.

And three or four of them, it was. But this one gal seemed like she wanted to talk to him all the time. She would also text him. He would be on there as soon as he got home from work til midnight. I thought it bizarre, but that his interest in the internet would wane.

Eventually, this woman even sent me a friend request, I didn't know her, but I recognized the name so accepted it. She informed me that my husband was depressed and bored with the almost twenty year marriage. I was somewhat miffed, and asked him if this was true and why he would discuss this with a stranger.

At some point, she began telling him she loved him, and wanted to leave her husband for him. She proceeded to add our KIDS as friends, asking them if I was a good mom and wife, and tried to add a bunch of our other friends.

He did tell her to stop it, but she was on a roll.

I discovered a conversation where she described her love for him, whom she had never met, and she wanted to move here, and I was a frigid crazy ****** who was on drugs, and he should get rid of me.

All hell broke loose, and I was going to leave, or put him out....I had NEVER saw him doing such a thing. He begged me to stay, proclaimed his undying love, and that he was just trying to be friendly, and not to hurt her feelings, but I had seen that he wrote "I love you, too" and it was a knife in my heart.

He managed to get rid of her, she was extremely mad, and vengeful, but he got her to stop. For months after, I was paranoid and would check texts, emails, and phone records. We went to marriage counseling.

I've forgiven him, and I dearly love him, but this is still a scar on my heart, and I don't know if it will ever completely go away.