I'm forcing my husband away exactly the same why I pushed someone else I really cared I was wondering if it'd be a bad idea if I asked that ex for help I don't think he's talk to me though I pretty much made him hate me throughly I did try to apologize the other day on email because I live like five hours from him now and I no longer have his number to call I just don't know if it'd be a good idea out not I don't wasn't my husband to feel threatened and I know I'd feel that if he talked to Ann ex but each time we fight I think this is exactly just like what happen before so I thought maybe hecould specifically tell me what to work on please don't say ask my husband either he won't tell me he don't tell me when I've done wrong he tells his mom instead so a don't fight which pisses me off