Quote:
Originally Posted by chuckelzchriss
I'm forcing my husband away exactly the same why I pushed someone else I really cared I was wondering if it'd be a bad idea if I asked that ex for help I don't think he's talk to me though I pretty much made him hate me throughly I did try to apologize the other day on email because I live like five hours from him now and I no longer have his number to call I just don't know if it'd be a good idea out not I don't wasn't my husband to feel threatened and I know I'd feel that if he talked to Ann ex but each time we fight I think this is exactly just like what happen before so I thought maybe hecould specifically tell me what to work on please don't say ask my husband either he won't tell me he don't tell me when I've done wrong he tells his mom instead so a don't fight which pisses me off
|
I didnt bother taking the poll.. because I believe you already know your answer and we cant tell you what to do...thats not what psych central is for. here every member has control over their own lives, no members tell each other what they should and should not do....
only you and your treatment providers can say what you should and should not be doing...
my opinion is that you are a very smart and able person...anyone that can see beyond their mental problems to seeing they are repeating a past behavior and then make/execute a plan to carry out a destructive behavior can (if they want to) stop that destructive behavior..
Im going to be blunt here...your post reminds me of the time one of my siblings committed a crime...he knew what he was doing was wrong (evidenced by his approaching a friend to ask the friend whether he should do the crime or not) he expected his friend to say no dont do it but this friend decided if this so called friend is going to ask me if its ok for him to do something wrong lets show him how rediculas asking a friend to tell him whether to do wrong or not is...he told my brother heck yea if you want to do it, do it man. my brother got caught shoplifting a remote control car...my brother was 8 yrs old.
my point is even children know right from wrong.
you know what you should and should not do, and you are competent enough to plan this out, which means you are competent enough to make your own decision and do what you think is right for your self...
Im sorry but you cant use the members here as your scapegoat (reason for doing right or wrong) thats not what we are here for.