Olive, the first guy I was with who took advantage of the situation was 19 I was 15. At the time the age difference didn't seem to be an issue. I thought the 15 and younger statutory rape thing took all the fun out of stuff. But after becoming an adult, I can see where the ease of manipulation, the not completely developed since of right and wrong increased the chances of what did happen to me to happen to others as well. Though at your tender age, it is hard to see and understand there are reasons not to mess w/ older guys or girls which ever.

When I was 17 I dated a guy who was 24. Not statotory rape age but still he knew the laws and was very careful not to do anything that could get him into trouble. He was the one night stand I lost it to though. Which I will never regret. He was the utmost respectful and did everything in how power to make it memorable.

The only other guy I dated well. I was 18 and he was 28, divorced and had a child. Not lots memorable about that dude. Lots of poor quility sex.

Then I met my Husband. It was on my 19th birthday, and he was 5 months older then me. We waited to until he asked me to marry him to have sex. Still married to him.

So age is something to keep in mind. Immaturity in brain development is why you should wait. Keep your clothes on dear. My uncle went to prison for 3 years. He took pictures of a girl with his cell phone, who looked over 18 was was dressed skimpy. She was 16, had on no undies. My uncle should not have been doing that. He got what he deserved, but I do not want that to happen to an older man who might look at you the same way. You have to be careful what you are advertising.