Hi Brok3: It's been a couple of weeks. I'm just checking in for an update. How are you doing? I know this is devastating. What he did was so hurtful. He had sex (or made love) to you then next day tells you he wants a divorce. Also, I don't believe this girl is the love of his life.

I think he feels he's getting "old" and wants to affirm his manhood. Whatever his reason, his behavior is so disrespectful to you. Are you entitled to ask him to move out? I mean is the house in both names? I'd be curious to his response to you asking him to move out.

One more question and I mean this with all respect: Why do you want him back? I know you say you love him. I'm just asking because I've been hurt by a few men and I still wanted them back (so I thought). But it turned out, after the pain, that I didn't even like who they were as people. Would you ever be friends with your husband if you split?

Also, does your husband have any kind of addictions, ie, cigarettes, food, workaholic, porn?