been there, and dumped him.

six months later he had changed and we're married now.

but that's because he really loved me and wanted to be better for me, and because we had known each other for years before and had always been friends and actually, he was a lot better about doing his part in the relationship.

however, if he had EVER made me cross a state or two for him and then not answer his phone, leaving me out in the cold for an hour, it'd be over right then and there.

i don't do well with being left out in the cold.

i also don't do well with giving people money for something they're supposed to use for me, and then see nothing out of it. eff that. see, that's happened to me before. long story short, the same man i'm married to pulled that on me, once. once. we didn't speak for a year. he's never doing it again.

this guy you're with...i'd have dumped him long ago. i'm a big proponent of compromise and communication, but there is a line that you just do not cross.