Transference is available in most relationships.....that is the meaning in a nutshell. I have been divorced for 9 years...My t is married. Unfortunately (for me); it has become a personal relationship. I am also an undergraduate in the mental health field.

What to do? Only you can decide that. I decided to share my feelings for my t and he handled it professionally and delicately, but it was traumatic.

Usually a therapist knows/perceives of a clients' feelings for them. Mine did.