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Old Apr 23, 2013, 05:28 PM
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Originally Posted by lightbulb7 View Post
Consider this: In this Universe are many things: Ducks, Trees, People. There is no thing by itself- every thing that is, has others like it. There is nothing that there is only one of. Do you believe that there are some ducks that were born lovable, and some ducks that came forth who were simply unlovable? Were some of the ducks allowed to be with others and congregate, and some were just so bad they didn't deserve that kindness? Of course not. People either. There is not one single person, Adolf Hitler included, who was unlovable or destined to a loveless existence. If some people seem meant to be loved and accepted by others, what makes it possible that some of the same kind would be excluded inherently from such a need? Impossible. Long story short, you are lovable, because you are you, and you are loved and admired by people you didn't even know cared about you. Without you, existence would be incomplete, you are irreplaceable. Congratulations my friend, you are loved!
I wish I could print this in huge letters and tell all seven billion ppl on earth this wonderful truth.

There are no unlovables.

I learned in recovery that love is when someone places external value on you. It does not necessarily reflect your own worth.

We are all lovable.

Carol
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