I have been dating a man for nearly two years. In the past week I have noticed a few red flags : not responding to texts for long periods of time, texting from two different phones work & personal, not being as attentive as normal, numerous posts from lady in his city, visiting his family who live 20 minutes from me but he didn't come see me. He had his boys and said there wasn't time. Yesterday he deleted Facebook after I asked about other lady. Deleted a pic of us on Twitter-said it was an accident, favorited pics of two women on Twitter who were seductively dressed, changed time setting on Facebook so I can't tell if he is on or not- after I mentioned he was on but didn't respond to a text. Doesn't want to put we are in relationship on FB until I meet boys, which he says will be soon. About a year ago a girl was texting him and he deleted the texts in front of me when I asked to read them. He lied about being somewhere,but when I researched it he finally admitted lying. It seems like he always has a reason. Other than that, he treats me well, says he loves and wants to marry me. He lives 100 mikes away and visits every other weekend. I am perplexed. If I am reading to much into the recent things, I don't want to lose him. If he is lying about deleting Facebook page ( says it just happened and he didn't do it )., then I can't be with him due to lack of trust. Ideas?