I'm sure I'm not the first to complain about medication related sexual dysfunction, I just have a few questions to ask in general. I've lost the pride that made me feel like I could figure out how form a relationship with a girl on my own.

I'm 22 years old and haven't had a girlfriend since I was 18. It was the only girlfriend I've ever had. Back then, I wasn't on any meds, and had a strong sex drive, but she did not want to have sex (not the reason we broke up). Now, I'm a little lost as to what I should search for in a relationship. I can masturbate sometimes, but it takes a lot of elbow grease (not trying to be funny), and I have little confidence that I could sustain an erection during a sexual interaction. However, I'm still curious about girls.

The sexual side effects lead me to a lot of insecurity, decreasing my confidence overall. In a culture where it seems like everyone is trying to get laid or get drunk (I'm not doing either), how do I go about finding someone who is willing to accept me despite my problem? Is it likely that I can find satisfaction in a relationship without my fiery passion? Is it possible that being with someone in person will further stimulate me and increase my ability to do it? And finally, does Viagra really work?