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Old Apr 23, 2013, 07:23 PM
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Originally Posted by the_end? View Post
He regularly has unwanted thoughts of what I did with those other men and bad dreams along the same line.
It seems that he imagines very specific physical acts. Take it to the logical extreme - in bed, turn the unwanted thoughts into fantasy and have him be the "other man" and you be whatever you were in his imagination (not reality).

Hopefully it will desensitize him. Do it a lot, ad nauseam.