I do not think any one can ever end a LoVe relationship with out the one that still cares from getting hurt.... what I would suggest is for YOU to tell HIM exactly what have you said here as to let him down as easy and caring as possible.

I wish YOU the best in doing what you feel is right for this relationship (and for you) and I am PROUD of YOU for not wanting to hurt another living being.... you are doing what needs to be done with a caring & open heart.... Good Luck.

LoVe,
Rhapsody - ((( hugs )))