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Originally Posted by vampire_girl2000
I went on this one 'unofficial' date where I really felt that I clicked with the guy and by the end of the night he kissed me on the cheek before I left to get on the bus home. Well after he kissed me, I basically just jumped on the bus without a word, not even looking at him or saying good night or anything...
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I just want to comment on the situation, without touching on the whole subject - I do not have experience with the subject as a whole.
Situationally, it was not inappropriate to do what you did. The guy might have attributed your jumping on the bus to some awkwardness and even, possibly, to his good luck with you - oftentimes we act in an awkward manner precisely when we LIKE the person. Especially given your tender age, he does not necessarily expect you to know the social graces.
However, to the extent that you are concerned that he might have interpreted your jumping on the bus in a way that was unfavorable to him, this can easily be remedied by sending a nice short written communication to lift his spirits. I would advise you to follow up with a nice short written communication anyway, SHORT of course, just in case he might have been a bit disappointed by your reaction.
This is a practical, situational problem that has an immediate practical solution, which you can execute without waiting for the resolution of the big problem - the inability to physically express love.