i have an idea for you, myself!! there is a member on another site that offers an e.mail address for all of those people who wish to avail themselves of his opinions, thoughts and advice.

all you have to do is go to hotmail and set up an e.mail address and you can keep it separate from your personal mail.

you can copy and paste your ideas or come up with them on the spot and voila! everyone is happy!!!!

how about that? it works for that guy....... why wouldn't it work for you?

since i don't start threads here anymore, i'm not so worried about my posts....they are always in context within the thread..(and my self-disclosure is now confined to PMs)..i'm worried about people who start a thread asking for support and suddenly find themselves over in a blog because the blogger found amusement/interest/curiousity in the poster's thoughts and feelings.

and what in the freaking hell is supportive about finding your pain in a blog that belongs to someone that you've supported and posted along side of?????????????????????????

it is the concept that i'm "giving a hard time"...... i'd be all over my best friends here if they tried this...... and if you don't believe them, PM some of them and ask them.....

please just answer my questions if you can......i understand your concept......i want to know if you understand mine. pat