WOW! Did you ever hit the nail on the head!

I do think he is scared on some level...and I think he does feel he is important because he was with me while I had PTSD.

Yes, I have more education that he does...and he does talk about it all of the time...I went to college and he did not...but it does not bother me. I think it bothers him.

I was a little surprised about the gown issue - it is supposed to be my choice...I don't think he meant anything by it. He was telling me what he liked from a few I had picked...

He seems totally confused honestly...

Thanks for your response Perna!