My std phobia stems from sleeping with to many women to remember , and guilt i had 4 kids with different girls by 21 ,2 i never see. i punished myself , and my guilt turned to phobia, i have nuked it now but i would never sleep with another other than my wife, even if it was scarlet yohanson , i still flirt with ladies an there has been many times i could have had sex but i wont. the first time i do i will die of guilt., i mean it. if i were you give blood on a regular basis, your not infected so you help someone and get tested at the same time after a while you will think i sayed someone and myself at the same time, i dont go now do to hospital meds not shrink meds but i have a siver pin for 10 donations and my wife has the gold pin has she is o neg a much needed blood. take care and that will solve you prob.