That is an issue with his use of English and he should change the way he talks to you - the problem is on his end.

Nobody really wants to "meet somebody's requirements". If he "requires" sex, he should seek paid sex services, sex toys whose specs fit his particular requirements, porn, or whatever - he should not place "requirements" on you.

Instead, he should "want" and "desire" you and "long for" you and have "passion" for you and be "wild" about you and "miss" you when away etc. If he is unable to do that, you should discard him because there is no point in continuing.

I would go on to say that a man who needs counseling in order to stop talking about requiring sex and start talking the normal human language of passion is not worth the money spent on counseling and not worth your time.