If you don't mind my asking how old are you AnxiousKitty?

I think you have not had enough time to figure "you" out. It sounds like you had too many "bossy controlling men" around you in your life. You absolutely are not on this planet to be at the beckon call of some man who just decides "he needs regular sex to keep "him" happy". And to ask you to send nude pictures of yourself where these pictures can someday be made more public? Absolutely "not", you deserve to have boundaries too.

I don't think you are borrowing centuries of pain either. You feel what you feel, and if you feel you are being pushed where you don't want to go, you have the right to say "no".

Some women might have "fun" exposing themselves on our latest technology, but that doesn't "ever" mean you should "ever" have to be like them.

OE