Hi Jadzea ~ I agree with you 100%. But I ALSO agree with Riotgrrrl 100% too, cause I got sucked into a relationship that ended up abusive, and stayed there for MANY years. I was too afraid, etc., to get out. And this place wasn't even a twinkle in anyone's eye back then, so I had no place to go for advice. LOL

I'm glad there are places like this now. I sure could have used it back then. Oh well -- live and learn.

Thanks for BOTH posts! God bless & take care. Hugs, Lee