I have recently connected with my first love from 20 years ago. Once again all the feelings came back and I am head over heels in love with him again. To make a long story short, he is not really in a place in his life where he can get serious with someone again and I am at that place after being divorced for over 2 years. My question is how do I get him off my mind? I don't want to be consumed with thinking about him and get carried away with my feelings. It just feels so good to be with him again. It feels very natural and right. I stay busy all day and no matter what I do I can't stop thinking about him because I am crazy in love. Help!