Hi Indie and its okay if you haven't been around - must mean you're busy and living life. You and I have been PC buddies for a few years - I tend to take on a protective role, especially with younger members. I agree you may be over-thinking this and first loves are intense. Good for you in realizing you may have embellished the 1st guy. I'm sure you know about Internet safety and how its very hard to accurately gage a personality. If he was willing to do some sexy online activity while still having a GF, this isn't the kind of man you need. Please be very careful revealing any nudity because it can be copied and used for blackmail and bullying. I'll stop the mothering or Aunt role now lol.

Take it easy with the new guy and learn whatever you can from the past experiences. I really hope this new guy turns out to be great but, remember not to lose yourself completely in the relationship. You need to be strong on your own or with a guy. Most of all don't let anyone have anything on you, like risky photos. Best of luck Indie.