It appears that you are suffering limited sexual side effects from your medications, in that you have some curiosity about girls and can masturbate with extreme effort. So, not all is lost but a lot is lost. Things can be worse (were much worse for me and are reported to be much worse for many others on here), but for an 22-year-old, even that seems unacceptable. While there are ways to work around the problem if you are willing to give your girlfriends lots of non-phallic attention (always a good idea, anyway), it may be hard to do even that without your fiery passion. Most importantly, it is unclear why you would want to work around your problem and look for compromises rather than attack the problem at the source, by talking to the prescribing psychiatrist and having him/her help you get on different medications altogether? It does not sound like you have explored all your options; it sounds like you "you acquiesce to defeat before you even begin." - from Kill Bill, Kill Bill: Vol. 2 (2004) - IMDb