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Originally Posted by julie234332
my friend, who seems normal and happy in general, is going to prison and has to serve 4 years. he was on the phone with me and said he wanted to kill himself and i told him not to. i am scared he eventually will before he is sent to prison. is this normal?
also, i am disgusted by his crime so i do not even want to be friends with him anymore. now i feel things are awkward between us because of this whole prison scandal. i am scared that if i end our friendship, he will kill himself.
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this is a very difficult time for you-your pal has to face the severity of what he has done; but before he done this he was someone you enjoyed spending time with-now that has to change but that does not mean you cant still offer him support; although you must of course, make this desicion for yourself, and if he chooses to take his own life then you cannot expect to feel guilty for this, although I really believe he wont; there are no rights or wrongs in this for you; think carefully; take some time out and consider carefully. I hope it works out for you x take care sweetie