Thank you for the responses. It has been two weeks and yet she has not called. I know she feels that I should be the one and that she probably doesn't even want to bother because of how "my husband treats her". Good grief. I have been feeling worse lately. Went back to another doctor for more tests and now I have horrible breathing problems. I have told my dad but still nothing from either one of them now. My dad was worried and kept telling me to make an appt with a cardiologist but he hasn't made an effort to call or email me. See once my mom gets wind that my dad may perhaps be more understanding to me she gets in his head and gets him going with negative things.
I feel alone. My mom is the only person I ever had in my life that was a constant, even though I knew there were issues I just sort of brushed it all under the rug. I know deep down your responses are the right ones but my heart hurts. I want my mother back in my life and I want everything to be normal again. I just wish she would make an effort. Sometimes family stuff really stinks. My mother will never admit when she is wrong and she will always find ways to make excuses. She will always turn things around and make everyone else look bad.
My daughter has another recital coming up in a week, I will tell my dad but I'm sure my mom won't attend again. I am so disappointed with everything. I really feel like all this is making my condition worse. I'm up all night as well. And the kicker is she doesn't care or its not bothering her at all. Mother's Day, I'm sure she will expect something. I just don't know how to handle any of this. My husband won't budge and quite frankly I don't lame him. He has said the same things as the responses. Make her come to you. You haven't done anything to deserve this. But I sort of feel like I could have prevented this in some way. I'm really messed up with all of this.