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Originally Posted by Antimatter
I am a little hurt, but not offended. I am a person, and I don't and won't describe myself in the terms that are written above.
I am not ashamed of who I am.
Namaste
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I didn't mention a dx. I just said personality disorder. There are several personality disorders that do that actually, but the one I had in mind was Narcissistic Personality Disorder, and I in no way was referring to you as being one who had that dx. Obviously, if you don't continually look for rules to break, I wasn't speaking of you. I am sorry you were hurt, I was trying to be vague and not judge any one person.
Peace.
In the hypothetical situation the OP mentioned, it was a person who blew thru a boundary and then was making excuses as to why they continued to blow thru it (it's the t's fault). This is the behavior that puzzles me so much and that I find to usually go along with a personality disorder. Us PTSD folks wouldn't dream of over stepping. We can't even come close to a boundary because they are so frightening to us. One behavior isn't better or worse than the other...it's just opposite behavior. I was only trying to point out a reason for the differing replies. I meant no harm to anyone.