I am so sorry for your frightening experience and I am so glad your daughter is ok!:
How irresponsible of your ex !
Just as an aside do you and the school have an epinephrine pen on hand for emergencies ? For kids and adults with allergies they can be life saving. As a former Emergency Medical Tech I have seen this first hand.
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JASON 8/17/1985 to 1/03/2013
I miss you sweetheart