That's over the top. Maybe he has headupyourownass syndrome? Good for your daughter for speaking up being so young. That's a sign your doing something right. I have 3 daughters, I can imagine your terror. I have many divorced friends whose ex's do stupid stuff out of spite. Like posting pics on Facebook with their 2yr old in a booster carseat that they are obviously too young and small for. Or pics of their dairy allergic kid eating ice cream and pizza even tho the kiddo breaks out with eczema every time they have it. And the worst - taking their nonvaccinated child tons diff Ped and getting them tons of shots even though both parents came to the decision not to vaccinate while they were together. Total BS. ((((((hugs)))))