have had this one friend 4 to 5 years now.but it always seems so one sided.i have helped her meet a lot of baseball players at baseball games.gave her a few tickets to games.not once has she done a nice thing for me.she even gave a free ticket to someone she hung out with just 2 or 3 times a few years ago.she just won tickets and a field pass for a game next week.instead of inviting me she invites her husband who hates sports.her husband treats her like crap and he tries to treat me badly also.last baseball season we got into a fight over her and her husbands behavior.she went off on me when i expressed my feelings.all i do is attract users with alliterative motives.it's like i can't find friends who give a damn about me.my relationships always end up one sided.i give and give and people just take and take.people really piss me off at times.a few weeks ago this same so called friend tried to pressure me into buy tickets to baseball tickets i can't afford.i told her no and she kept asking over and over again.