Sorry, Leed, it's already been written by a woman:
The Woman's Fix It Car Care Book: Secrets Women Should Know About Their Cars: Karen Valenti: 9781886284456: Amazon.com: Books
I'm glad it's at the library, S&C, and not something you bought thinking it would help you! I am shy but it would never occur to me that I had social phobia. I guess I could conceivably see them on a continuum but still, a phobia is not just a character trait gone wronger.