About three months ago I asked out a girl I liked for a long time and she said no. I was very hurt by this considering I had never met anyone I had so much in common with. Since then I have struggled with the fear that if she didn't want to go out with me then I wouldn't have a chance at finding anyone. That fear led to an ill fated attempt at a relationship when a friend asked me out that I mentioned in a previous post here. Yesterday I found out that the girl I asked out now has a boyfriend and even though there was no way we would end up together I was still bothered by this. I know it is completely illogical. I haven't lost her in any way, her and I are still good friends, but I haven't been able to shake that feeling. Is that normal? Up until that I had been able to distract myself from my failures with romantic relationships with schoolwork but now I can't seem to suppress it.