Mr.V, I am the same way. The Dr. for the longest time (5yrs) never knew that that my psych meds affected my sex drive. I didn't mention it. The Dr. read off a list of possible side affects. That was one of them and I answered yes or no to every question. That got a yes.

That is just an area of life that is/was very private. It is not something that is up for discussion. After finding The T I have now, 9 months after being w/ her have I began to mention sex related stuff. It has to be in writing. I can't say the words. She is fine w/ that. She can respond in words and ask me yes or no questions. I can respond yes or no. Sometimes I can't answer even then, just a nod. Have you considered writing some of the things that have happened to you and showing it to the T. That might would make it easier.

If there are things I need to volunteer, I do so w/ a pillow over my face. I am so embarrassed. So good luck in over coming this issue