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Originally Posted by hamster-bamster
The main problem related to your anxiety is that you get scared, then you get more anxious, and the rest is a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Since you are scared that there might be a bigger issue, you should seek advice from your GP. Also, ask the GP to prescribe Cialis - not that you should look forward to using Cialis for life, starting at age 25, no, but as an extra assurance to get over being scared. Maybe if you have a few successes with Cialis, you can then drop Cialis and do fine left to your own devices.
Also, give her orgasms with your mouth and hands - not only will it be good for her, but your successes giving her orgasms will work towards alleviating your anxiety which stems from your fear of failure.
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An update, I really think this all stems from my idea of doing something wrong, something going wrong (condom breaking at the inopportune time being my biggest fear), failure and time spent masturbating versus being with someone else.
I've pretty much ruled out the medical problem as I'm still able to have an orgasm with her. That fear stemmed from not knowing what was happening.
Her and I are very open about talking through this and taking our time, slowly working back into it.
I appreciate all the comments!