I have talked to her about it and she loves him just as much as she love me so she will never leave him for me she wants the best of both worlds and she knows thts greedy lol but thts how she feels all 3 of us do fight very bad at times but we always seem to talk it out and work thru it and for a while everything is great again im just so torn cause ive fallin very hard for this woman and if i walk away im losing everything cause she will never walk away from him and he will never walk away from her i just have no idea what im gonna do anymore