Hi there,

I only just saw this now but i wanted to say i think you ve done really well finding this alternative avenue for yourself to help you work through your problems. I say go for it and make the most of the opportunity. this could really help you if you can get on with eachother.

on the other hand i agree with what's been said about the safety side of things. letting someone know where you are and trusting your instincts about staying in the garden instead of the house is very wise. give yourself time to get comfortable and only trust him as far as your instincts allow. hopefully over time you can trust him more and more as you feel safer because from what you have said he does sound legitimate.

you asked in a post to someone else what 'credentials' are. it just means his qualifications. see if you can look him up online maybe or ask your friend from the scouts some more about him?

im really glad you have a chance to talk to someone though. well done for the work you ve already done to help yourself. and good luck with it all! please know also that you can continue to post to check out any weird feelings you get about this guy.

take care of yourself,
biiv