Hey,
I experience this very often... One of my best friends would text me when she wanted advice in her relationship. I'd get "Do you think I'm good enough for my boyfriend." I'd basically tell her the truth that she was fine and overthinking. Well, when I needed an opinion and I called her up, she was listening for 1 minute before I heard her texting people. I even asked her some questions on multiple occassions and had to repeat myself!! Like how rude. I wasn't whispering, girl, so I think it's bad that I even have to ask if you're still there.
My boyfriend is somewhat the same. Now, he's bipolar so I'm sure you can imagine how one sided it feels for me. On top of that, I get yelled at for nothing... But look, it's no excuse for his princess syndrome (yeah I said princess!). He expects me to do things that he himself wouldn't do. And I can't even get a word in about my day because by the time he pauses on the phone and I start to tell my tale, he says he's going to bed.
Oh well... so yes, I know how you feel.
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