i know and you really cant just shout at her. she gets hurt easily. but then there are so many teens years and years before that when she was kind of mean. shouting at me was like favorite past-time of my mom that until i started replying. but before that for my first 16 years everyday morning she will get mad at me and at evening she will regret it.

i am afraid to visit her. for first 2 days she is really happy, at third day she is angry at me for no reason. i reply something then she is sad for whole day. now i even try to make sure i don't speak with her for too long!