It hasn't been a yr since I was diagnosed and I've asked this question more than I care to remember. Recently I had a third eval to be sure a mistake wasn't made. This has been really hard for me. I did not have BP growing up or have a clue I carried the gene. Mt onset was after a surgery and taking a AD. By the time of my onset I already had three kids. The only thing I could do is educate my older two (15,18). and pray. I do agree w/ wild flower child, we just got the short end of the stick. I'm trying to learn to make the best out of a bad situation. I can say that I've been lucky so far (knock on wood). I haven't had a episode since being on BP meds (8 mns). The only things I know to due is avoid A/D (never a prob for me, try to avoid lots of stress and get plenty of sleep. Then I follow the Girl Scout moto, be prepared. I have a safe plan and a medic alert bracelet.

Stay strong