It does make more sense staying here, financially and jobwise, the job IS good? The big thing is it would be BIG change if you went to europe, but could you come back if you didn't like the new job there? She is willing to come here, as I think you meant? I would think twice about moving is whatt I'm saying too because few people have jobs they love,a don't get along with the people they work with like you do now.