I see where your coming from and maybe i am a lil greedy lol but im so in love with her and do want her all to myself but i also knew coming into this relationship tht she had a man and i would have to share her but i never thought for one second id fall as hard for her as i did and its very hard to share the woman u love with someone else but i love her so much tht i just deal with it and her and i sneek away and talk about everything tht bothers us abt him and eachother her and i have a completely seperate relationship thn the 3 of us or her and him its hard to go to him abt things tht bother us cse hes a man lol and men dont see things the way woman do so her and i talk alot she loves him very much and i care alot abt him so we just deal with thigs and whn we can we get our feelings out and help eachother thru it the best we can