i think its just a man thing im in a relationship with a man and a woman we r all together and our hubby would rather watch porn and do his thing then b with us and whn he is wth us he seems like its a chore for him and he just wants it ovr so her and i sneek around i kn thts not rite but we want it and if hes not gna give it up were gna do it together he is a great guy and we have beent ogether for so long we dnt want to end it we have talked abt it to him and he just says hes gettin older and its hard for him to keep an erection and please us both we dnt think thts the issue we think he is just done with us and wants someone new but were really not sure...