Suzy -

Thanks and yes that is my point Im not responcible for other people being triggered when they CHOOSE to read my posts knowing full well what I write triggers them. You don't always see these comments the moderators and administrators try to delete or edit such comments as they can and other times the person who makes those comments can if they choose go back and edit their post that contains those comments. But sometimes the person the comments are directed against are on line when it happens so the damage gets done. Those of us that this is happening to and Im not the only one. Im just the one that is being vocal about saying Im not taking the blame anymore I Just don't feel comfortable putting "MY" experiences out here. because every time I make a reply to someone some else jumps me be it publically or not here or not for how wrong MY experiences are.

By the way my capitalization is not because I am being defensive or switching on line or am yelling at anyone. I told a moderator that I would capitalize my I statements because I know that even though I do use - I - statements in my posts for some reason people are not "seeing" them or just willfully are passing over those I statements and centering on the fact that what I am posting about is not their experiences so they go off at me.

My capitalization is just my way of making those - I - statements that I already use more visable. At times I may even use the bulging eyeballs smilie to point them out so that there is NO question that I am talking about MY experiences not others.

And yes we all have to do wh at its best for ourselves wheich is why I have disclaimers also that I will start capitalizing within my posts saying - IF WHAT I HAVE POSTED IS NOT WHAT YOUR EXCPERIENCE WITH THIS IS THEN USE WHAT CAN HELP OUT OF WHAT I WROTE AND PASS ON THE REST AND MOVE ON TO OTHER THINNGS THAT DO HELP YOU.

Hang in there

and Rhap -

I too thought you were quoting from a book because there was no I statements in your post that I could see. Thans for clarifying