I am not gay but I´ve been extremely attracted to a person, at work. We would have extreme eye contact and she stared at me alot. I quit because she was my boss of some kind. When we said our goodbyes, we hugged really tight for about five minuts. Carressing each others backs, none of us wanting to let go.
Then just had a normal/formal conversation afterwards, wishing eather other good luck.

I am deeply attacted/ in love with her. She is much older and I don´t know if thats what´s wrong, now that I quit the job.

My question is if I should have asked her, if she wanted to see me again? In a private setting.Also I wonder why she didn´t ask. She´s the one who started with the flirting and held me really close when hugging?

I am pretty sure she is gay and thinks I am too...Hmm I am a bit clueless.

Is it normal for people to interact that way, only to say goodbye? Sigh