I'm 40, not financially stable, but emotionally stable, which is worth its weight in gold I have true, deep friendships which give me lots to do and experience together, my family relationships are strained, but that's because I have learned who I am and know I don't have much in common with my family. I am confident, and happy as a clam! But in my twentie's I was much like you...give it time, you will find your niche in life...I kept putting myself out there, meeting more and more people, some in support groups for mental illness, some in church, even some out in the bar scene! Out of all the people I was meeting, maybe 4% became real friends over the years...about to spend time with one of them now

It puzzles me that so many in this thread would focus on physicality, instead of the heart of the issue- your emotional growth

Work on who you are as a person, your emotional life...the rest will fall into place..

PM me anytime, I relate, I care about you